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If you're here, working on your personal growth is probably something you're passionate about. Maybe you've been in the self-development space for a while. Books, podcasts, seminars, therapy and coaching sessions... they're great, but they're just not enough to seal the deal.

If you're tired of letting others' expectations dictate your life, being afraid of disappointing others, or constantly doubting yourself, and you want to get out of your own way,
this might be precisely what the Universe has called in for you.

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Still looking for acceptance?

What could you accomplish if you could stop the constant negative self-talk?


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"Dr. J came into my universe and set everything on fire... she knows how to find that thing that's in you that's [kind of like] your switch."
(John Blanchard III)

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We use the science of psychology + infuse it with the wisdom of your unique spark to cut out people-pleasing for good

If you question whether you're making the right decisions in life or spend too much time playing by other people's rules...

You know the thoughts that run through your head all the time:

"I'll disappoint others if I focus on what I love"
"I'm not good enough"
"If I'm rejected, I'll lose everything I have"
"I'm an introvert. It's my nature to be shy."

... your search is over.

Believe in your abilities and know your worth.
Make bold decisions and build the confidence to pursue your passions.
Cultivate a positive self-talk mindset.
Have a clear understanding of your values, goals, and vision.
Embrace challenges as opportunities.
Experience deep satisfaction - lean into your purpose.
Feel empowered to take control of your life. 
Embody self-confidence, agency, and conviction.

Learn how to:

find clarity and direction

Happiness is a lot closer than you think.

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"How can I overcome my fear of disappointing others and pursue my own passions without feeling guilty?"

"How do I cultivate self-confidence to advocate for myself in my relationships and career?"

"How can I effectively manage my empathic sensitivity and set boundaries to prevent emotional overwhelm and burnout?"

Through an integrative approach weaving together
*the wisdom of psychology*,
*the transformative power of hypnosis*,
*the insights of neurolinguistic programming (NLP)*,
and the
*healing practices of connecting to the spirit*,

We offer a holistic journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

Our method delves deep into the subconscious mind, uncovering and releasing limiting beliefs, while honoring individual uniqueness and cultural heritage. By blending modern psychology with ancient wisdom, we guide our clients to reconnect with their inner selves, tap into their innate strengths, and embark on a path of authentic living and fulfillment. This unique synthesis of disciplines allows us to facilitate profound shifts, enabling our clients to step into their true power, embrace their passions, and create the life they truly desire.

  • Eliminate guilt, self-sacrificing, and people-pleasing patterns so that you can unapologetically take up space without fear or shame.

  • Learn the skills to grow closer to your best-self vision and have more confidence/self-trust.

  • Get out of your own way to bring to life what you've been afraid to create/manifest.

  • Shift Your Mindset about what you're capable of: break your ceiling and get out of your own way.

  • Have Guided Practices + Exercises at your fingertips to develop a more resilient version of you.

  • Engage with Guest Teachers to radically change how you live life.

  • Learn strategies to help you live your life without guilt and release toxicity from your life.

  • Make connections in Sparkability Groups for support & accountability to help you see you at your best.

  • ... and access to bonuses like: hypnotic meditations, resilience classes, happiness & success research, book clubs, pop-up competitions, etc.

  • The Bodhisparks includes some of the most inspired, uplifting souls ready to support you and create a sense of belonging.

aren't you tired of being an extra in your own movie?

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Step into your Purpose, Life Breather

Aloha!! With shamans in my bloodline, I've been asked to hold down the fort for awakening spirit-seekers and soul-sparks to navigate this life with inspired courage and take honest actions to live a life that matters. 

We're re-creating all our distorted love-maps so that we can learn to unapologetically and without shame, love ourselves and teach others to do the same.

Your life matters. And I want you to experience it for yourself.

When my career counselor sat me down in my fourth year of college and sat across from me at a long, tan, oak table - hands folded- and said, "Sunny, what do you want to be when you grow up?", I froze.

Instead of sitting down to make some well-informed decisions, I let fear win. Because of a deeply-seated fear of commitments, perfectionism, and making mistakes, I just kept studying to delay any kind of "real life" decisions.

Fast forward through undergrad, two masters, and a PhD - and here I am. A thriving business, amazing clients, and a life people would die for... but now I'm finally ready to share with you what it's like to face your fears and let courage lead. And it's got nothing to do with what I've built on the merits of my degrees or certifications.

I'm creating something that no license, diploma or certification could've prepared me to do. In fact, they might have even gotten in the way. But when courage shows up, you follow.

Following your dreams requires a tribe. Personal development done on your own is incomplete, because no man is an island.


Bodhisparks Founder, Licensed Psychologist, Award-Winning Author, & Happiness Coach

I've wasted too many years smothering my spirit by letting others determine who I was in this world.
And because I've had my share of heartbreaks from humanity,

I grew up believing that I needed to play small, blend in, put others first, and silence my voice if I wanted to be liked, accepted, and belong.
I buried my presence, purpose, and passion
beneath other people's stories and forgot how to recognize my own heart. In order to feel like I belonged, I played the role of an extra in my own movie.

Does this resonate?

I've finally figured out how to listen to my heart, un-distort my perceptions, and remove other people's limitations from my beliefs... and I want you to know how to do the same.


James Everett is a UX Designer, Mentor, Life Design Coach and Entrepreneur looking to help others get unstuck, gain clarity and execute on their ideas. He prides himself on seeing the true potential in others and believes that imagination and ideas can be constructed into logical action steps to reach goals and change a person's life. He uses the Design Thinking process as the fundamental framework in order to achieve this personal transformation. 


Bodhisparks Community Manager

He grew up a very shy boy in Queens, NY and experienced violence at a very early age. Being perceived as different and never feeling like he fit in, he has a deep sense of empathy and compassion for those looking to find their place in the world. 

James offers a well rounded holistic approach, with a degree in Dietetics and a Health coaching background, he understands the mind body connection and its importance in the process of change.

His programs and coaching are available exclusively on the Bodhisparks platform. 

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"I believed I had worked through everything. As it turned out, there was something far greater - and older (50 years to be exact) - that came up. Dr. J was amazing... if you have an opportunity to work with her, DO IT. Don't hesitate for even a moment"
 (Lori Hoover, Intuitive & Psychic)

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The bodhiSPARK is a special kind of soul - we are the special breed of human that wants to make beautiful, long-lasting changes in our lives but know we're here to do that for the rest of humanity too.

Inner-work isn't about setting yourself apart from this world, to isolate yourself, or least of all, to put yourself above anyone else.

BODHI-FULLY: awakened to boldly pursue freedom & enlightenment.

[bōdē ˈfu̇(l)-lē]


✔️ Take steps towards what you really want, so that you don't waste any more time wondering what to do next or twiddling your thumbs waiting for the Universe to hand you something. 

✔️ Understand who you really are, instead of draining your energy trying to suppress who you really are; when you know this, you can say adios to guilt, the fear of losing yourself, and distorted obligations.

✔️ Feel the peace that comes from releasing guilt or shame about who you are, what you want, or how you want to live.

✔️ Trust yourself fully, instead of asking others for validation.

✔️ Get unstuck from toxic patterns that taught you to put others first, trust others before yourself, or self-sacrifice in order to be loved.

✔️ Make delightful discoveries that has you in all the right feels about the real you that you've been hiding away, and fall in love with the world again. 

If this resonates, you belong here.

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"Engaging, perceptive, and spot on in her questions. If you're serious about improving your life, it would definitely be in your best interest to work with Dr. J."
(Kevin Gainey)

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  • Shift Your Mindset & Vibrational Alignment: break your ceiling and get out of your own way with live monthly Masterclasses + Coaching.

  • Guided Practices + Exercises to develop a more resilient version of you.

  • Engage with Guest Teachers to radically change how you live life.

  • Learn strategies to bring your purpose to life without guilt and release toxicity.

  • Sparkability Groups for support & accountability to help you see you at your best.

  • ... and bonuses like: hypnotic meditations, resilience classes, happiness & success research, book clubs, pop-up competitions, etc.

  • The Bodhisparks Tribe includes some of the most inspired, uplifting souls ready to support you and create a sense of belonging to create sustainable, uplifting changes.

what's included

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"I sense that my purpose now is to do something that matters and it might not be the thing I am trying so hard to do! I am very grateful to you"

"The format is perfect... challenges... [from] phone, connecting with people... A perfect balance of compassionate motivation without judgment"

"What I love about this whole experience was the positive energy people gave. The support was beautiful. honestly didn't really expect that going in. It was so wonderfully uplifting... And your questions, omg, they really made me think!And you meet great people along the way. You meet your soul tribe!"

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The Bodhispark Tribe brings together spirit-seeking visionaries who want to break free from the status quo (of living life with guilt, shame, or self-sacrifice), to rediscover their true potential through guided exercises, live coaching, and tribe support, so that they can live an unapologetic life in self-love.

It's simple. And it's unique. You are your biggest obstacle and we're here to help. Here at Bodhisparks, you'll finally understand how to move beyond staying stagnant because you'll know yourself more fully, you'll let go of that old story that says you're not enough, and you'll be in control of how you show up. You'll finally rewrite your distorted love-blueprints - that unconscious, yucky stuff that you haven't been able to touch.... until now.

Did any of this intrigue you? Come try it out for free, for 14 days.
If you find that it's not in vibrational resonance, you can cancel with no obligation to stay, anytime in that trial period.
No strings attached.
Your other option is to play on the sidelines & stick with the status quo.

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What is the Bodhispark membership?
The Bodhisparks membership offers a supportive community of like-minded peers and coaching expertise in the form of live monthly masterclasses, guided exercises, meditations, workshops, book clubs, pop-up games and more.

How many times a month do you meet?
Officially, we meet for a Masterclass + Group Coaching, and a live group Meditation. Additional educational content, hypnotic meditations, VIP early-access to podcasts/videos, community polls, and games are held. Unofficially, pop-up meetings and tribe shares are available every month.

How do I know if this is for me?
Bodhisparks is for anyone feeling stuck in life and in need of clarity and purpose. Overcoming the fear of abandonment and failure, learning to trust yourself, and building unshakeable confidence is the focal point of our community mission. If you want to discover who you really are and take steps towards what you really want, the Bodhisparks is for you.

How is the membership delivered?
The membership is conducted through our exclusive community platform. 

How much of my time will it require?
As much or as little time that feels right for you.

What if I can't finish all the content?
The content will be available for the lifetime of your membership. You can access these anytime.

What is the cancellation policy?
You can cancel your membership at any time from the membership platform.
You will continue to have access until the end of your billing cycle.

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